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I know its long but i really need help

im les and ive been with my gf for over 1 year but we have gone out before but we dont count that time. we love each other more than anything in the world. but we were keeping our relationship from our parents since they are not really accepting with being gay. so we decided to not tell them till we turned 18(we r 17).

we were always together and her mom sort of suspected something but we would just tell her we were best friends. but then yesterday i accidentaly dropped my phone in her bathroom and she got it without us knowing. we asked her if she had seen my phone because i tried calling it and they were rejecting the call then the phone was off. she denied it and said she had to go to work we tried searching her but she didnt let herself and ran out the door and left in her car. we didnt want her to get my phone because we had pictures of us together(kissing). we then recieved a call from my gfs sister saying her mom saw the pics and was on her way back. her mom stole my dads # from my phone and called him to tell him everything.

my dad was working in iraq so he quit and hes on his way home and will not get here till 5 days. there was alot of chaos last night. i cussed at her mom and told her off i dont know how much and so did my gf. now im stuck here at my gramas since my dad told them to take away my car and to keep me there till he got here. i talked to him a little over the phone and he told me that what ever i decide to do with my life is fine. so im guessing he meant he will accept it. but my gfs mom just wont. and to top it off her boyfriend which lives is dallas is getting alot of stuff into her head telling her not to let us be together and to send my gf to bootcamp. i cnt do nothing right now but i told my gf to calmly try talking to her mom and try to convince her to accept us.

What can she do to try to convince her mom? what can she say? please help we wont be 18 till 7 months
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