i have a hard time trusting my husband?
ok thіѕ past weekend mу husband wеnt tο pick up ѕοmе car раrtѕ. I wеnt home tο indiana whіlе hе іѕ іn texas. Well i gеt home i cant gеt a hold οf hіm аnd hе isnt calling anyone i thουght hе wаѕ missing. Ok thіѕ happend friday nο call sat. аnd late sunday i gеt a call. Hе wеnt tο dallas. Hе ѕаіd hе couldnt remember mу phone number аnd thats whу hе didnt call. Thеn hе ѕаіd hе spent thе night thеrе. Now hе hаѕ thеѕе girls οn hіѕ myspace аnd ѕhе lives close tο whеrе hе wеnt. Everytime i qυеѕtіοn hіm іf hе cheated οn mе hе saids hе wouldn’t dο thаt i dont know whаt tο rесkοn.
i hаνе looked аt hіѕ myspace before аnd hе sent emails tο ѕοmе girls thаt i nеw hе liked frοm basic saying hey cutie, уου look cute tο two different girls. I used tο know thіѕ password thеn hе changed іt now hе gets mаd аt mе іf i ѕау i rесkοn hе іѕ cheating οn mе. Alѕο rіght before i left hе hаd a text οn hіѕ hіѕ phone saying hey baby frοm a Sgt. frοm hіѕ ancient unit hе ѕаіd hе doesn’t know whу ѕhе sent іt аnd hе talk tο hеr a 2:50 аm fοr 59mins аnd tοld mе hе wаѕ talking tο hеr аbουt ουr realtionship. Alѕο i gοt up one morning аnd hе wasn’t thеrе аnd hе tοld mе hе fell asleep іn hіѕ car аt thе gas station. i саn i аррrοасh hіm wіth out hіm getting mаd
trust unless u have a reason not to…like proof
This is a joke, right?
hmmm. well forgetting your number is kind of suspicious. break into his myspace page and email her, see if she writes back.
I don’t know why you don’t know what to reckon?? The resolution is right in front of you. (On his MySpace).
Doesn’t remember you phone # – BS.
Disappears for days on end – cheater!
Wretched, but he was fooling around on you.
have him rub out his myspace and keep a small leash on him
I can so relate to that. I have been through it. Of course if he is cheating on you he is not going to outright admit it. You may have to do a bit of your own detective work on this one. As far as I can see he isn’t really giving you a reason to trust him.
You have every right to be concerned. I smell a rat!
He is lying to you how could he not remember your phone number what a lie he didn’t call because he was laid up in bed with that chick all weekend. Tell him you don’t believe him and tell him you want him to take a lie detector test if he blows up about it then you know he is lying if not he will say OK lets do it.
You know what you are allowing him to do this cancel your internet and remove the computer get the numbers off his phone if its a cell phone call and tell them you want them to send you an itemized phone bill for all the calls and phone numbers on that phone you may also be able to look it up on the net. Or you can tell him Exactly what it is HE IS A CHEATER AND KICK HIS SORRY A** TO THE CURB AND TELL HIM NOT TO COME BACK you can do better.
Well, it sounds a bit fishy, but you really have to trust before there is proof. I wouldn’t believe that he forgot his own wife’s phone number. FYI, Myspace nearly tore up my marriage. He needs to get rid of that childish website.
He cant remember your number? And you really believe that???
You have valid reason to be wary of him, until HE is able to prove otherwise.
gosh….
place a fish in front of a cat, walk away and come back to see the fish gone… question the cat if she ate it.. cat’s gonna say ‘no. meaw’
If you have extra cash in hand, hire a private detective, I believe the cost was about 2k ~5k. somewhere in between…
They say the best day to bust cheaters, is either on Valentines, or Christmas.
excellent luck.
Well it could be worse it could have been a another man!
From what you are saying, it seems like to me that he is cheating.
How is he your husband, and gives you a wretched excuse such as he forgot your number,……come on now.
He will never admit that he is cheating, you basically have to catch him.
I would say for your sanity that you get out of this relationship, because it doesn’t seem to be headed in the right direction.
He is playing you huge time.
Why is he married to you, but has girls on his myspace page?
There are a lot of questions here???
Do yourself a favor and be with someone that you can trust.
You know what he is doing. If you don’t trust him it is over. Don’t remember your phone number for two days no way. A man knows his wife number unless something is incorrect with him. I sure he did and you know what that problem is. (A WOMAN)
No one here can tell you what he did….but I will say it is very suspicious, and trust me, no matter what he has done, he is going to deny it, period…no one who has a brain is going to own up to that one. You must choose whether you can place this down or not…it will lead only to terrible places. If you do not place this down, you are going to corner him and it will get hideous…he really may not have done anything, yea…right…but so be it. The toughest thing about trust is keeping it…only if you place this down completely will you ever have trust again. It is better to trust and ultimately be burned than to lose trust and live in misery, jealousy, and suspicion. Excellent luck, I hope it works out.
Man! I despise that Myspace! You have some reason to feel the way you do! My wife and I are on that site. I was on there first and had all sorts of girls on there. She did’nt like it and the girls had to go! I don’t know my wife’s cel phone # but I damn sure have it programed in my phone! (if I did’nt have a cel phone it would be on a huge piece of paper in my walet!)
Tell him to get those girls off there! Its as unadorned as that! If he likes you he will do it!
he is cheating!!! you dont forget your wifes number,you know that when he needs something, he always finds your number! and thats BS that my space crap! how ancient is he? he needs to grow up, until then leave him and give him time to do so! you can find a man that dont do that stuff, and one that will like you! GOD bless!
Ok, when someone falls asleep in their car at a gas station, not only do attendants notice, but so do COPS. This is a splendid opportunity to give an idiot a ticket and a drug test.
Also, if the gas station is closed, muggers and carjackers are just dying to meet this sleeping victim. If they are open or closed, firetrucks and passing emergency patrols would have smashed his windows open and made sure he was alive.
Car parts can be ordered a lot cheaper than really travelling to go pick them up, has he always told you he has to travel to distant spots to pick up car parts?
Let me tell you what to reckon…, YOUR HUSBAND IS A LIAR AND A CHEATER!!! I am wretched to say that you do not appear to be very gifted. He also isn’t very sharp, unless he is drugging you and that is why you can’t plainly see that this guy has your mind all twisted! GET HELP NOW.
Duh. Just go out. This is over.
Everyone is telling you to leave him and that’s just sad. You haven’t clarified the circumstances very carefully, so it is impossible to really know what exactly has happened. You said that this weekend you went home to Indiana but then you said you got home and and he wasn’t there. When exactly did you go to Indiana? How long were you gone? Was your husband expecting you back at a certain time? Do you two call each other every day when you’re apart?
As for the phone number, I can’t remember numbers. I have to have them written down. I never called my wife on my cell phone and the first time I went to call her, I realized that I didn’t even have it stored in my cell. It was an reliable mistake. I can’t remember my own phone number either because I don’t call myself. I’m not saying your husband’s mistake is reliable, just that people are very quick to cast him in the role of villain.
Try writing the whole thing down. Read it carefully. Go over the points to make sure that you are stating facts and not assumptions. Also make sure the language isn’t agressive. Then question him to read it. Clarify to him before he reads it that you are asking him to read this because you are really concerned about your relationship. Any man worth his weight will take the time to read it thoroughly. Any man that refuses is questionable. Remember, don’t accuse him of anything, just clarify how all this makes you feel.
In the end, there may be perfectly excellent reasons for equipment happening the way they have. In any case, your relationship will either become stronger by doing this, or it will end quickly. Either way, you will be able to get on with your life quicker, without all the doubts.
He is up to no excellent! It is time to investagate and catch him red handed. You have to lay low and pretend nothing is bothering you. In about two or three weeks you set up something with a family member that you trust. You make arrangements to go back out of town for a whole week end. Get a car or use one from someone that he has never seen. Stay in the area and watch him. Then follow him and see what he is up to. You have to set him up and catch him. Also you could go on myspace and connect with him under an alis name and start talking with him for a minute. You could then offer to met him at hotel and met him there. He will be surprised when he finds you there. Then you will know what to reckon for sure and you will have proff of his intent. When he was in Dallas why did he not call information to get the number to where you were staying? Find out where he stayed in dallas and check to see if he was there somehow. if you could get into his myspace you could pretend that you are your husband and talk with the girl that lives near Dallas. You could possibly get some information out of her to find out if he met her. I’m wretched but you need to watch him…..there are to many STD’S out there. Excellent Luck Sweetie.
DUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH……what more do you need for proof? i skepticism if you really saw them in bed doin it….you’d believe it. stop being so stupid concernig this man……..i dont mean to be harsh, but it just pi double ss’s me off for a man to do this crap and even madder when a woman doesnt believe what is right before her eyes.